One thousand Marbles
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The older I get, the more I enjoy Saturday mornings. Perhaps it’s the quiet solitude that comes with being the first to rise, or maybe it’s the unbounded joy of not having to be at work.
Either way, the first few hours of a Saturday morning are most enjoyable.
A few weeks ago, I was shuffling toward the garage with a steaming cup of coffee in one hand and the morning paper in the other.
What began as a typical Saturday morning turned into one of those lessons that life seems to hand you from time to time. Let me tell you about it:
I turned the dial up into the phone portion of the band on my ham radio in order to listen to a Saturday morning swap meet.
Along the way, I came across an older sounding chap, with a tremendous signal and a golden voice.
You know the kind; he sounded like he should be in the broadcasting business. He was telling whom-ever he was talking with something about ‘a thousand marbles.’
I was intrigued and stopped to listen to what he had to say.
“Well, Tom, it sure sounds like you’re busy with your job. I’m sure they pay you well but it’s a shame you have to be away from home and your family so much.
Hard to believe a young fellow should have to work sixty or seventy hours a week to make ends meet.
It’s too bad you missed your daughter’s ‘dance recital’ he continued.
“Let me tell you something that has helped me keep my own priorities.’
And that’s when he began to explain his theory of a ‘thousand marbles.’
‘You see, I sat down one day and did a little arithmetic. The average person lives about seventy-five years.
I know, some live more and some live less, but on average, folks live about seventy-five years.
‘Now then, I multiplied 75 times 52 and I came up with 3900, which is the number of Saturdays that the average person has in their entire lifetime.
Now, stick with me, Tom, I’m getting to the important part.
It took me until I was fifty-five years old to think about all this in any detail’, he went on, ‘and by that time I had lived through over twenty-eight hundred Saturdays.’
‘I got to thinking that if I lived to be seventy-five, I only had about a thousand of them left to enjoy.
So I went to a toy store and bought every single marble they had. I ended up having to visit three toy stores to round up 1000 marbles I took them home and put them inside a large, clear plastic container right here in the shack next to my gear.’
‘Every Saturday since then, I have taken one marble out and thrown it away. I found that by watching the marbles diminish, I focused more on the really important things in life.
‘There’s nothing like watching your time here on this earth run out to help get your priorities straight.
‘Now let me tell you one last thing before I sign-off with you and take my lovely wife out for breakfast. This morning, I took the very last marble out of the container. I figure that if I make it until next Saturday then I have been given a little extra time..
And the one thing we can all use is a little more time.
‘It was nice to meet you Tom, I hope you spend more time with your family, and I hope to meet you again here on the band. This is a 75 Year old Man, K9NZQ, clear and going QRT, good morning!’
You could have heard a pin drop on the band when this fellow signed off. I guess he gave us all a lot to think about.
I had planned to work on the antenna that morning, and then I was going to meet up with a few hams to work on the next club newsletter.
Instead, I went upstairs and woke my wife up with a kiss. ‘C’mon honey, I’m taking you and the kids to breakfast.’
‘What brought this on?’ she asked with a smile.
‘Oh, nothing special, it’s just been a long time since we spent a Saturday together with the kids.
And hey, can we stop at a toy store while we’re out? I need to buy some marbles.
Stay Inspired and Stay Safe ~ Dean Letfus
The Ethical Investor
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Surrounded by fruit trees
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I spent much of last year warning people generally and advising investors specifically that this year is going to be……
A: Bad for property markets and
B: Great for investors
So the media is finally catching up with my predicted reality
In the last 2 days we’ve seen medians fall and now the agents are admitting today that things are bad.
So this truly is going to be an amazing year to set up your next investment or build a portfolio.
Which reminds me, I must tell you a classic story from one of my new mentoring clients.
Yesterday he was on the way to the beach and saw an auction about to start so wandered in. Short version is:
Met someone outside, got talking. Person wanted someone to find them a property, doesn’t like agents.
My client is today looking for a property for him. Cash buyer ready to go unconditional immediately.
So how hard is it to find buyers and make money out of property.
If it was any easier everybody would be doing it!!
Stay Inspired and Stay Safe ~ Dean Letfus
The Ethical Investor
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From glasses to fire hydrants
By · CommentsI read somewhere that finding information on the internet is like trying to take a drink from a fire hydrant. And certainly we have gone from information scarcity to complete overload in my adult lifetime. In terms of society I can’t really think of one benefit of this. We live in a world which is faster, more dangerous and less personal. However given that we do have this world now one has to roll with the punches and look for the benefits!
Certainly as an investor I can use my laptop to create wealth without ever leaving my office if i choose to.
Trademe gives me vendor leads,
Facebook, Twitter and my website gives me my buyers,
I can complete due diligence by emailing my trusted team,
IADVISE now gives me unprecedented data to assist with negotiating price down. ( Actually IADVISE is incredibly powerful, check out the demo here)
And the fax takes care of everything else
An end to end solution without standing up, pretty amazing really.
However…….
The rest of my life will be empty if I don’t remember that this technology comes at a price. I can’t have an electronic relationship with my wife. I can’t say I have spent time with my friends if I have chatted to them on FB.
A picture of a sunset will never be a substitute for the real thing. A simulated walk down the beach is well, just wrong
So remember today that life is for the living and needs to be savoured. Technology is an incredible tool in many situations but overall a curse to our passion, our mental health and genuinely intimate relationships.
Gotta go, my wife just texted me from the next room to tell me Top chef is starting
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Stay Inspired and Stay Safe ~ Dean Letfus
The Ethical Investor
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Deals everywhere and no time to think :-)
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Well it finally happened. I have so many deals on my desk that I actually forgot to do my blog earlier today, so here it is a bit late.
The fact is there is opportunity like I haven’t seen in a long time right now so strike while the iron’s hot, a rolling stone gathers no moss and various othre meaningless platitudes and sayings actually apply in this market.
Maybe property isn’t your thing but the principle is still true. If you start some activity towards your dreams and goals it is inevitable that you will get closer to them.
And yet so many of us get stuck on “off” don’t we?
So while I try and lower the level of papers around me can I encourage you to increase the amount of energy and effort you put into getting closer to your goals. One step is all it takes to get started!!
Stay Inspired and Stay Safe ~ Dean Letfus
The ethical Investor
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Real Estate Agents
By · CommentsMany agents are personal friends of mine so I trust my comments today are kept in context
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One of the wonderful things about the recent changes to the law in New Zealand is that the quality of agents is increasing rapidly. One major franchise estimated they would lose 30% of their agents through the changes. In the main it is the unethical and unskilled people who will tend to leave as the industry becomes more professional and accountable.
I have met a number of new agents in the last month and have been quite struck by the “new breed” of helpfulness and professionalism. This may actually become an industry one can trust in New Zealand rather than 5th from the top of least trusted professionals as at last years survey.
So the interesting thing about all this is that if it is relatively “simple” to change an entire corrupt industry surely we could also legislate to fix car salesmen, politicians and telemarketers who are the top 3 least trusted professions.
And another question for Monday morning,:
How sad is it that the only way to clean an industry up is threat of fines and jail. Whatever happened to personal responsibility and pride in ones work?
Stay Inspired and Stay Safe ~ Dean Letfus
The Ethical Investor
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It’s a public holiday in New Zealand so i was having a blogless day but this was too good not to share. Laughter is good for the soul after all!!
Thanks to Paul for the material, hope you laughed as hard as I did!!
Stay Inspired and Stay Safe ~ Dean Letfus
The ethical investor
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